Should I get with him? I'm not sure?

The next time he puts his arms around you, take his hands, unwrap his arms from around you, and look at him. Maybe a little peck on the cheek to soften the blow. And tell him how you feel. Just say "I told you, I need time. I'm not ready for this yet, and you're moving way too fast for me. If you're willing to wait for me, that's one thing, so long as you keep in mind that it's not a guarantee. But I can't make any promises, and you're not helping by pressuring me like this. When I'm ready, I'll let you know, but if you're not going to wait, don't force me, okay?".